When life doesn’t match your expectations or wants, you will be unhappy, in pain, even depressed.
How do you overcome this problem?
The short answer is, write down your expectations, clearly leaving 3 lines between each one.
Under each expectation on the first line, write down your current status of achieving or living that expectation. Most importantly, did deep into your mind and past programing, and decide if each one is Still a Valid Expectation. Is it something you still want to have or achieve in life? Is it really? If not, get ride of it, get it out of your mind and praise yourself for making positive change!
On the next line, write down what you have to do to reach and live that expectation. Do you need to go to school for it, get a licensed, move to another city, take lessons, or network with people already doing it.
Finally, review your life and expectations as they are now and decide if you want to add new expectations or maybe revise the old ones.
This is all about you and what you want in life. You are writing the movie script of your life and the finished product will play on your Big Screen of You Mind. So make it exactly what YOU want. Dream big.
As I like to say,
Think Good Thoughts
Speak Good Words
Do Good Things
When life doesn’t match your expectations or wants, you will be unhappy, in pain, even depressed.
How do you overcome this problem?
The short answer is, write down you expectations, clearly leaving 3 lines between each one.
Under each expectation on the first line, write down your current status of achieving or living that expectation. Most importantly, did deep into your mind and past programing, and decide if each one is Still a Valid Expectation. Is it something you still want to have or achieve in life? Is it really? If not, get ride of it, get it out of your mind and praise yourself for making positive change!
On the next line, write down what you have to do to reach and live that expectation. Do you need to go to school for it, get a licensed, move to another city, take lessons, or network with people already doing it.
Finally, review your life and expectations as they are now and decide if you want to add new expectations or maybe revise the old ones.
This is all about you and what you want in life. You are writing the movie script of your life and the finished product will play on your Big Screen of You Mind. So make it exactly what YOU want. Dream big.
As I like to say,
Think Good Thoughts
Speak Good Words
Do Good Things
As a boomer, getting a little bit older every year, we step back and take a new look at our lives. We survived our career choice in small business, government or corporate America or maybe the military. Now that we’ve raised our kids and maybe have a few beautiful grand babies, the kind you can play with then give back to their parents, our interests, needs, and our physical abilities have changed. That’s the way life is, admit it or not.
We’re thinking about retirement, downing sizing the house you raised your kids in or maybe even moving to a warmer climate. We might even be thinking about giving back to the community or starting your own business. To do that we need to find the right opportunity. So, here’s a good article of Finding and Creating Opportunities. Hope you enjoy it.
Here we go………………..It’s by a young man by the name of Ryan P. Allis.
“How, in your own lives can you find and more importantly create opportunities?
In the Chinese language, you have the character representing crisis and the character representing change. When these are combined you have the character representing opportunity. Now why is that? Why is it that when crisis and change merge you have opportunity?
Because when crisis and change merge you have disequilibria. You have changing laws or changing conditions. New needs and problems are created and often it is up to the entrepreneurs to fill those needs.
Whenever you experience new things or the world around is changing, there will always be lots of opportunities. Here are some tips for finding, creating, and taking advantage of opportunities.
You must live your life wholly and fully as an entrepreneur. Your job isn’t being an entrepreneur. You ARE an entrepreneur. You must keep your eyes open at all times.
The more you travel to other regions and countries, the more opportunities you will see. Often in other places things are done differently or there are good products that haven’t yet reached your country.
You must be a networker. The more people you talk to the more opportunities you will find out about. It is not just what you know but also who you know and how well you know them that counts.
You must be in it for the long run. You cannot be discouraged by setbacks or mistakes. You must have perseverance, learn from your mistakes, and keep going. As you learn more and gain more experience you’ll be able to see and be prepared for more and more opportunities.
The world is filled with opportunities just waiting to be found by an energetic and intelligent person.
Too many people wait for opportunities to come to them. Don’t. Don’t wait for the opportunities to come to you. Create the opportunity for yourself. This is what entrepreneurs do. We see a need or a problem and from that derive an idea. Then, through doing all those steps I listed a few minutes ago we create an opportunity that hopefully will be validated in the marketplace.
You must have the opportunity mindset. You must be looking for and evaluating opportunities constantly. You must make time to talk to others about what opportunities they are pursuing. You must become magnetized towards opportunity.
Let me conclude this section with a quote from one of my favorite authors. His name is Napoleon Hill and the quote is “Every adversity comes with it a seed of equal or greater benefit.” “Every adversity comes with it a seed of equal or greater benefit.” Another good quote is, “There is no person worth remembering that lived a life of ease.”
You will be discovering many many opportunities for learning, for partnership, for collaboration during your lives. From the adversity of life there will come many benefits and opportunities. Take advantage of every one of them.”
By, Ryan P. Allis, 20, is the author of Zero to One Million, a guide to building a company to $1 million in sales, and the founder of zeromillion.com. Ryan is also the CEO of Broadwick Corp., a provider of the permission-based email marketing software and CEO of Virante, Inc., a web marketing and search engine optimization firm. Ryan is an economics major at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he is a Blanchard Scholar.
I hope you enjoyed this post. If you liked it let me know.
